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Good Samaritan Letter -- We're Deeply Touched

Read the letterSteve Eick Again. We’re deeply touched that a Good Samaritan has kindly offered to resolve this case. Read the text of the letter here.  We really appreciate this generous act. At some point I hope to repay this kind act for somebody else. If my first contact with Ms. McCarthy had been something other than a court summons, I think this dispute would have gone a different way.

For a history of this dispute see here, here and here.

Who is morally wrong?

 Q. Stephanie for returning the iPod to Shannon’s Dooney & Burke designer purse (while she was in the room) rather than handing it to her?

Q. Shannon for leaving her purse and iPod unattended while she went to the bathroom and them blaming Stephanie, the kid who put the iPod into her purse, rather than whoever took it?

Q. Melanie McCarthy for filing a lawsuit against her daughters friend before contacting Mr. Eick or conducting an investigation to find who really took it or how it was lost? Ms. McCarthy for not accepting any of the three settlement opportunities?

Q. Stephen Eick for not (paying for) or forcing his daughter to pay for the iPod when somebody else took it? (He offered to pay $100 or pick up a refurbished iPod for Shannon on eBay.)

Q. The news media for reducing a she-said she-said between teenagers into sound bytes and hyping it into an international media event? Neil Steinberg for turning a misunderstanding between 8 graders into a lesson in morality and a lecture on class?

Q. The kid who really took the iPod and is probably a friend of both Shannon and Stephanie?

There are two sides to every fence. Let’s examine both sides of the fence before jumping to conclusions.

 

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Posted on September 3, 2006 10:18

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September 3. 2006 10:50

Melanie McCarthy

Mr.Eick,

1. Shannon received permission from the teacher to get her Ipod out of her locker and listen to it in class, she doesn't break rules.
2. On the day of the incident, Stephanie told Shannon she would tell her mom and pay her back.
3. We waited a week and then I spoke to your wife and Stephanie on speaker phone. Stephanie said she placed the Ipod on Shannon's desk next to her books. If there were any other story, I would have completely investigated it.
4. Eight weeks later on a Monday I called your house and spoke to Stephanie. I told her they would be starting school soon and to please talk to you and your wife so that we could discuss this like adults. She said she completely forgot about the incident but she would talk to you and call me back. I gave her my number and told her I would wait until Friday and then file in small claims court and the fee would be part of the suit. I was never called back.
5. I told the paper the gift was very generous and to hold on to it until after court. When we win we will graciously accept the gift and donate the money won to a local charity. As usual, the Sun discarded most of my comments, I will no longer talk to them.
6. The Sun photo shoots, Judge Mathis show, web-sites are so over the top. I know what Stephanie told me a week after the incident, if kids want to get involved because they want their 15 minutes, so be it. The bottom line is this is about responsibility, respect, honesty. Even if we lose in court, in the long run we're winners.

Thanks,
Melanie

Melanie McCarthy

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